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		<title>Comment on Video: The Drugging of Our Children by Gary Null by wayfarer prescription glasses</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[wayfarer prescription glasses]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2013 15:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow, this piece of writing is pleasant, my younger sister is analyzing these kinds of 
things, thus I am going to let know her.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, this piece of writing is pleasant, my younger sister is analyzing these kinds of<br />
things, thus I am going to let know her.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In Sheeps Clothing by George K Simon by Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2013 20:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This was a great video Lola thank you for posting, feel free to check out this Ebook on emotional abuse it is only 0.99 cents, and help break down emotional abuse.http://www.amazon.ca/Emotional-Abuse-How-Get-ebook/dp/B00AB2UP0M/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1357589397&amp;sr=1-1]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was a great video Lola thank you for posting, feel free to check out this Ebook on emotional abuse it is only 0.99 cents, and help break down emotional abuse.<a href="http://www.amazon.ca/Emotional-Abuse-How-Get-ebook/dp/B00AB2UP0M/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&#038;ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1357589397&#038;sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.ca/Emotional-Abuse-How-Get-ebook/dp/B00AB2UP0M/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&#038;ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1357589397&#038;sr=1-1</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Audio: Merlins Magic: The Heart of Reiki (Full Length) by dsfsdf</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 03:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[thank u so much!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank u so much!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Audio: Merlins Magic: The Heart of Reiki (Full Length) by Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 11:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This so awesome im going to buy the CD I would encourage those who enjoy it also to do the same and support this artist]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This so awesome im going to buy the CD I would encourage those who enjoy it also to do the same and support this artist</p>
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		<title>Comment on Emotional Abuse in the Workplace by Lola</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lola]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2011 11:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Emily, first off I would suggest your daughter in law start keeping a record of each incident by recording a timeline of events as they occur. Each incident needs to be factual not emotional as this will serve as a record if it goes to court or a hearing.

The best thing you can do to help your daughter in law initally is to listen to her. Embrace her and gently encourage her to speak about her feelings because most likely if she is experiencing bullying then she has only told a fraction of it.
 The idea of encouraging her to talk about it is to help her realize and understand she is being bullied, and yours and other loved ones compassion can help spur her on to feel like she is regaining control. Absolutely reinforce the message there is nothing wrong with her and she is none of the things a bully has told her she is.

Empowerment is when you help another individual make the best decisions for themselves and your love and support will help empower your daugher in law so she can start developing a plan of action. If shes not in a position to find another job then her plan of action could begin with learning about what is emotional abuse, bullying and especially workplace bullying. Then she can begin finding out about the policies at work. Engage colleagues she can trust so she can learn as much as she can and create a plan she is comfortable following.

Knowledge and raising self esteem are the key issues when dealing with any kind of bullying and is even more important when its bullying in the workplace.

Do some research in your town and find out if there is a local community group who can provide support and information for workplace bullying and harrassment. 

I applaud you for helping your daughter in law with this, no matter how she chooses to handle it your support will help her gain confidence and this is ultimately what she needs. I wish you all the best!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Emily, first off I would suggest your daughter in law start keeping a record of each incident by recording a timeline of events as they occur. Each incident needs to be factual not emotional as this will serve as a record if it goes to court or a hearing.</p>
<p>The best thing you can do to help your daughter in law initally is to listen to her. Embrace her and gently encourage her to speak about her feelings because most likely if she is experiencing bullying then she has only told a fraction of it.<br />
 The idea of encouraging her to talk about it is to help her realize and understand she is being bullied, and yours and other loved ones compassion can help spur her on to feel like she is regaining control. Absolutely reinforce the message there is nothing wrong with her and she is none of the things a bully has told her she is.</p>
<p>Empowerment is when you help another individual make the best decisions for themselves and your love and support will help empower your daugher in law so she can start developing a plan of action. If shes not in a position to find another job then her plan of action could begin with learning about what is emotional abuse, bullying and especially workplace bullying. Then she can begin finding out about the policies at work. Engage colleagues she can trust so she can learn as much as she can and create a plan she is comfortable following.</p>
<p>Knowledge and raising self esteem are the key issues when dealing with any kind of bullying and is even more important when its bullying in the workplace.</p>
<p>Do some research in your town and find out if there is a local community group who can provide support and information for workplace bullying and harrassment. </p>
<p>I applaud you for helping your daughter in law with this, no matter how she chooses to handle it your support will help her gain confidence and this is ultimately what she needs. I wish you all the best!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Emotional Abuse in the Workplace by Emily</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emily]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 10:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi my name is Emily.
I hav a adaughter in-law in a work place where two women who emotionally,mentally abuse her. The foreman is aware however I think he&#039;s scared of these two women himself and chooses to do nothing. Jobs are hard to come by she cannot afford to leave and she puts up with their continuious bullying. I have thought about approaching the boss and to ask him has he any policies on emotional, mental abuse.I would appreciate any feed back, i actually think it&#039;s mentally draining me.
Thankingyou Emily]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi my name is Emily.<br />
I hav a adaughter in-law in a work place where two women who emotionally,mentally abuse her. The foreman is aware however I think he&#8217;s scared of these two women himself and chooses to do nothing. Jobs are hard to come by she cannot afford to leave and she puts up with their continuious bullying. I have thought about approaching the boss and to ask him has he any policies on emotional, mental abuse.I would appreciate any feed back, i actually think it&#8217;s mentally draining me.<br />
Thankingyou Emily</p>
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		<title>Comment on In Sheeps Clothing by George K Simon by ana</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 21:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know plenty - they include mother, co-workers, ngo directors, teachers, professors, neighbours and on and on. I believe those who are instinctively manipulative lack a clear understanding of themselves. Those who maintain a check on their behaviour, not least to those around them, have a better chance at avoiding offensive behaviour patterns. But manipulation is part of the DNA of government, the mainstream media, and many of those in authority. The challenge is with those who are manipulated - as we have seen in North African and Mid East states. On an individual level there is a dirth of courage to speak up against what is essentially a form of abuse.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know plenty &#8211; they include mother, co-workers, ngo directors, teachers, professors, neighbours and on and on. I believe those who are instinctively manipulative lack a clear understanding of themselves. Those who maintain a check on their behaviour, not least to those around them, have a better chance at avoiding offensive behaviour patterns. But manipulation is part of the DNA of government, the mainstream media, and many of those in authority. The challenge is with those who are manipulated &#8211; as we have seen in North African and Mid East states. On an individual level there is a dirth of courage to speak up against what is essentially a form of abuse.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Get rid of your Expectations by David</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[David]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Nov 2010 03:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nice read! Here&#039;s another good story on the subject -
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.darshanchande.com/2009/12/how-to-get-rid-of-desires-and.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to get rid of desires and expectations?&lt;/a&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice read! Here&#8217;s another good story on the subject -<br />
<a href="http://www.darshanchande.com/2009/12/how-to-get-rid-of-desires-and.html" rel="nofollow">How to get rid of desires and expectations?</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on But What About His Friends? by Lola</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lola]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2010 00:58:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[TY babe it took me hours to write though lmao xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxox Thank u for all the encouragement, means a lot xoxoxoxoxox]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TY babe it took me hours to write though lmao xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxox Thank u for all the encouragement, means a lot xoxoxoxoxox</p>
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		<title>Comment on But What About His Friends? by darkyoda69</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[darkyoda69]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Nov 2010 17:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nice babe very well written great points of view,I can see that your writing has grown to a professional look.I am so proud of you babe this has great form and the layout is well put together.Signed your Man Arron.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice babe very well written great points of view,I can see that your writing has grown to a professional look.I am so proud of you babe this has great form and the layout is well put together.Signed your Man Arron.</p>
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